Comments on: why this woman is on a self-improvement spree,when time is running out for her?

By: Jan409

Jan409 — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 18:00:22 +0000

OMG -she’s 30 with her whole life in front of her

What she does with her life is he business, and by all accounts she is improving things for the better, and feeling better in herself
I’m sure her divorce would have left her feeling very low in self esteem,so I’d be congratulating her on getting on with her life and making improvements that will increase her self confidence and self esteem.

She’s got high standards and there is nothing wrong with that
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By: bayou_babe1111

bayou_babe1111 — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:55:52 +0000

she is doing what makes her happy. maybe she isnt interested in finding another man right away. let her be - she is a grown woman & knows what to do to live her life the way she wants to.
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By: Debi

Debi — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:40:33 +0000

I think it’s very sad that this independent, successful woman has as brother whose judging her this harshly.

Stop worrying about her. She’ll be fine.
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By: Dragonfly Girl

Dragonfly Girl — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:35:18 +0000

Some people PREFER to remain single their whole lives. Stop projecting what YOU want onto her, it’s HER life. She’s doing what she wants to do to be happy, so let her be! In fact you should be HAPPY for her… many people never in their lives do a THING about self-improvement!!! And should she WANT to find someone and live happily every after, she still has plenty of time!! Only the very young and the ignorant think that a 30 year old is "running out of time." Do you have any idea how many people don’t find the person they want to settle down with until up into their 50’s? This isn’t the stone age, when you were ancient if you reached 40. People are living much longer and healthier lives these days, so BUTT OUT and let her be.
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I hope all these answers have made you think, and maybe you can share them with the rest of your family. You guys should be HAPPY FOR HER, and SUPPORTIVE as a FAMILY. Seriously…. think about it for a while.

By: kim

kim — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:33:26 +0000

You should be happy for your sister after all she went through a divorce now she’s loving herself. I don’t see anything wrong with that. Would you rather her be depressed and stop caring about her appearance or do you want her to be happy. It takes a lot for someone who just gotten a divorce to over come this way. It’s a blessing good for her.
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By: Mystery Writer

Mystery Writer — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:18:55 +0000

All the decisions she has made to improve her looks are just that - HER decisions. Regardless of what anybody else thinks, if she feels more comfortable doing these things - and clearly she has the money to do so - then all you can do is accept her choices. She is probably desperately trying to find herself and this is how she thinks that’s possible.
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By: RipCity

RipCity — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:18:09 +0000

Sometimes when we go through a tough divorce it makes us go back to see what was wrong with us why it happened and could we have done more to keep our loved one closer. She may be trying to prepare for the next one both for herself and for him thinking the ideal world will prevail. Problem is there is not one of us here on earth perfect nor is there one of us that can meet all that someone establishes for a standard. The real thing she should be working on is relationship and how to start, build, grow and maintain a good healthy relationship with anybody. The rest of is will fall into place. I know you can have the most beautiful person of the opposite sex and it will fail if the relationship is not built on solid principals. I know this doesn’t specifically answer your question but I hope it helps you think about how to approach her and help guide her along a better path than physical attributes. Good luck
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By: Arber

Arber — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:17:39 +0000

yes, time has ran out, she is also very insecure, if she does trick a man into being with her, 2nd marriages have a divorce rate of 60%, so she is detined just to be some old washed up middle aged hag with fake titties
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By: pianobee

pianobee — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:14:08 +0000

I laughed my arse off! Really, when I clicked on this, I thought, omg, your sister is 60+!! You act as if she is about to fall into the coffin or something. Mind your own beeswax, let her self improve until the cows come home. It’s her body, her bizness. Get a life of your own.
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By: Cliff R

Cliff R — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:13:55 +0000

And this has what to do with Marriage and Divorce??
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